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Still not over my first love
Okay, so during april i broke up with my boyfriend. We were only together for 3 months but, they were amazing. he was almost exactly what i would want in a boyfriend. he was the first boy i actually really let into my life and get to know the real person who i was. The relationship ended because he wanted me to do things that i wasnt comfortable doing, so he broke it off and it ended really badly. It's november now, so its been a while, and i still can't really move on, usually im not like this. My friends just assume than i am over him because it has been so long, but I dont really know what to tell them. I don't want to have feelings for him anymore, but somehow i still do. I really dont know what to do, i cut off contact for the most part. He doesnt even go to my school, so its not like i see him either. If anyone has advice on how to get me to move on i would really appreciate it. Thank youu.
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that happened to me this summer. i broke up with my boyfriend but i still liked him.. yahh. basically what youre going through. eventually, you do get over it. it takes time though. cutting off the contact is good because then you dont talk to him and get reminded of how much you like him. you have to remember that you broke up with him for a reason. he made you feel uncomfortable. talk to new guys and eventually you will forget about him completely. well.. not completely, but it wont hurt to think about him and youll eventually stop liking him. its okay to cry too.. people think it means your weak or like obsessed with the guy or pathetic or whatever but it can help get your feelings out and help you get over him.
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i'm going through something similar. i don't even know why i care about him anymore and i guess it's just that i'm lonely or can't find someone to replace him yet so i miss him.
what i advise/what i'm doing [that's working pretty well] is to not talk to him. remind yourself how fun it is to be single. it's better to be alone than with someone who doesnt repect you. occupy yourself with other things... like clubs and maybe get a job. there are other guys out there better than this guy, i promise. <3
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