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what should i do
HI!! umm..okay i used to like this guy named James and i told him and he says he just wants to be friends..so now we're friends and i think that im pretty much bordering the over him line..when i told my friend Kayla that & she said that she is "fallin" for him...and i am seriously not okay with that and i let her no but she dont care..she told me that at the vandy and uk game he winked at her, but i have had guys wink at me and they didnt like me...i dont know if he likes her, i dont want to think that...its not fair, the one with the guts to say something about it doesnt get him but the one that sits back and does nothing probably wins...plus isnt there some rule or law saying that a best friend shouldnt date a crush,ex, or any thing like that...she says that she dont think he likes me and that he likes her more, and they went on a trip with a club, i was gonna go but i couldnt, and suposedly they hung out and got to know one another better, i dont know what to believe...so summary...
1)does he like her you think??
2)do you think its right that she likes him??
3)what should i do??
4)do you think she is saying all of that just to make me jealous??
any help is great!! thanks ahead of time!
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Thankyou for your question.
Firstly, it's not a competition, although I can understand totally why you are upset. It's not a rule as such. It's just common courtesy - generally being nice and not going after someone their friend likes or has already dated IF they have a problem with it. Clearly, you DO have a problem with it.
You never know, maybe she is trying to make you jealous. Either way, it's working.
I know it's hard, but if I were in your position, I'd just leave them to it. If it turns out he does like her, then fair enough. You've already told her you have a problem with it and whether she wants to pursue it is her choice.
Just because he winked at her, it doesn't necessarily mean anything..and only time will tell I'm afraid.
I really think you shouldn't act like it's bothering you. Then it will be obvious to tell if she's trying to make you jealous or if she genuinely likes him.
Act like you don't care. Who needs him anyway? You will find someone who likes you as much as you like them within time.
You shouldn't lose friendships over guys.
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