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confused..advice please?! ok so theres this guy. he doesnt go to my school. but i guess that doesnt really mattter. anyways, he used to like me sooo much. like it was crazy how much he liked me. (im not bragging or anything here im just trying to explain my story haha). so anyways, i could get him to do like anything. it was pretty funny and i had fun w/ it for awhile. i guess it like made me feel special or whatever. the thing is i liked him a little bit at one point..i mean i might have liked him the whole time im not really sure bc i knew i would never be able to tell my friends i liked him..too embarrassing (long story..basically my friends would make fun of me, and also this guy is like best friends with my ex which yeah i know is also bad). but most of the time i felt like i was just leading him on. which yeah i know was bad.. but i couldnt help it he was just soo much fun to talk to and i really really really liked him, but just as a friend. but then like a week ago he told me he liked this other girl he met..then by the time we were done talking on the phone he told me he liked me again too. but he knew i didnt like him. and this other girl did. so then a few days ago he started going out with this other girl. like i thought it wouldnt bother me.. but honestly it kinda does. like ive been thinking about him more and stuff. he used to call me and text me like every day but now he only does a little.. obviously bc he has a girlfriend. so do you think i actually like him? or just miss the attention? and what do you think i should do? keep talking to him or just stop until hes done with that girl? help!
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Well if u think about a guy a lot hten tha most likely means that you like him. And even tho you like the attension, you still liked the boy too..at least i think you do. I don't think you should stop talking to him or that wojuldn't be fair. Just go along with what he is doing and try and get a little back in his life but not enough to scare his girlfriend away. You don't want to do that or he wouldnt respect you. SO i think you should still be friends with him and jsut pretend that everything is the same as it always has been. Just be normal and he will respect you for giving him the space. Just be yourself and dont' give up. Hope everything turns out ok. good luck
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