Question Posted Saturday November 10 2007, 8:39 pm
ok so theres this guy. he doesnt go to my school. but i guess that doesnt really mattter. anyways, he used to like me sooo much. like it was crazy how much he liked me. (im not bragging or anything here im just trying to explain my story haha). so anyways, i could get him to do like anything. it was pretty funny and i had fun w/ it for awhile. i guess it like made me feel special or whatever. the thing is i liked him a little bit at one point..i mean i might have liked him the whole time im not really sure bc i knew i would never be able to tell my friends i liked him..too embarrassing (long story..basically my friends would make fun of me, and also this guy is like best friends with my ex which yeah i know is also bad). but most of the time i felt like i was just leading him on. which yeah i know was bad.. but i couldnt help it he was just soo much fun to talk to and i really really really liked him, but just as a friend. but then like a week ago he told me he liked this other girl he met..then by the time we were done talking on the phone he told me he liked me again too. but he knew i didnt like him. and this other girl did. so then a few days ago he started going out with this other girl. like i thought it wouldnt bother me.. but honestly it kinda does. like ive been thinking about him more and stuff. he used to call me and text me like every day but now he only does a little.. obviously bc he has a girlfriend. so do you think i actually like him? or just miss the attention? and what do you think i should do? keep talking to him or just stop until hes done with that girl? help!
Additional info, added Sunday November 11 2007, 2:44 am: hes being a total dick to me now..but like he says he feels like i dont wanna talk to him. but then i try and hes a dick and he like hangs up. he told me a few days ago that whenever he talks to me on the phone he starts liking me again.. maybe thats why he doesnt wanna talk to me? but im just like really confused. and i cant talk to him 'normally' because 'normally' was like us flirting a lot and saying things to each other that i DEFINETELY couldnt say now that he has a girlfrienddd. HELP. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sealgirl07 answered Sunday November 11 2007, 1:56 am: Well if u think about a guy a lot hten tha most likely means that you like him. And even tho you like the attension, you still liked the boy too..at least i think you do. I don't think you should stop talking to him or that wojuldn't be fair. Just go along with what he is doing and try and get a little back in his life but not enough to scare his girlfriend away. You don't want to do that or he wouldnt respect you. SO i think you should still be friends with him and jsut pretend that everything is the same as it always has been. Just be normal and he will respect you for giving him the space. Just be yourself and dont' give up. Hope everything turns out ok. good luck
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