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friend & her bf
one of my "Best" friends,lucy, just got a bf like a week ago or something. two of our other mutual "best" friends - alexa and lisa - talk to him sometimes but rn't really friends with him; i am the same. well his cousin had like a party a cuple weeks ago. supposedly he was like to lucy "yea u and alexa and lisa can come" or something so they all kinda lied to me about it so "my feelings wouldnt get hurt." i confronted them ab it, and i thot it was a one time thing. then tonight he was like to her "yeahh maybe u and alexa and lisa can come over my house." i think he just says there names because they went to the other party, and they are just 2 of her friends that he thinks of off the top of his head. so lucy aclled me and like told me that. and ugh
it sucks tho, because now im sitting here alone on a sat night. all of my other friends have plans.
i don't get it, why can't she just be like to him " can ___ (my name) come too?"
it really makes me upset.. i would do it for her, and its not that big of a deal to just ask if one other person can go. any best friend would do it for their friend. im sure he wouldnt mind. unless she has like another reason for not wanting me to go, but i cant think of one. what do i do?
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Why dont' you jsut be upfront to her and talk to her about it. Just tell her the truth and say that i dont' think taht you are being very truthful and stuff because it really hurts your feelings. I bet she would understand and if she doesn't then he jsut isn't what you need anyway. If she is now trying to just leave you alone then you dont' need her, she is jsut being a mand friend. But ithink tha tshe is just caught up in the whole thing and that she needs to get pulled out. She doesn't relize that she is hurting ur feelings so jsut talk to her and tell her how you feel and what is going on...good Luck
~sealgirl~
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