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to be or not to be...together
Alright well....
I have a boyfriend, whom i love and he (says) he loves me back [some background info: this is the third time we're back together and he says he'll change for me this time]. well, when we're together we have fun but only if it's just me and him. when we're at school and around his or my friends, he acts different. he talks to alot of girls and says they're nothing to him but i know and he knows they all like him and want to be with him. i get crazy jealous and i have a reason, but when a guy comments me and says i'm a good friend he flips out. he tells me to be who i am and not worry about what people think [more bkgrnd: he's a punk, the type that smokes drinks but he stopped for me... and i'm kind of a good girl] but when i act like myself he makes fun of me and when i talk to guys who are only friends he gets really mad. i told him i'd NEVER cheat on him and i really mean it, but the thing is..he cheated on me twice and i forgave him because everybody makes mistakes, but he ended up feeling like shit (which is good for my part). i really do love him and don't want to break up with him because i don't want to see him end up like a lot of people i know, but it drives me CRAZY how he says one thing and does another and then acts like it's all my fault. all i want to do is keep him from screwing up his life, but at the same time i'm never the same when i'm around him vs. when i'm with MY friends. i want to concentrate on mine and just have fun, but i can't get my mind straight when i keep going back to my feelings.
the question is...should i break up with him?
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Your in a hard situation here. Firstly, Its not fair on your behalf that he gets angry at you for talking to guys yet he does the same thing with girls and you don't seem to go off at him about it. The fact that this is your 3rd time back together tells me its not meant to be because it would have worked the first or second time, however thats only my opinion. The fact that he cheated on you not once but TWICE is wrong, he should have learnt the first time. He is very lucky that you are so forgiving. I think you need to talk to him, it sounds as though you have been in a relationship long enough to be honest and open with him, express whats on your mind, if you don't it will only get worse.
No-one can make the decision to break up with him other than you, you need to follow your heart.
Good Luck xx
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All of this information given makes me think that you sound like you want to break up with him. If you ever have doubts with a relationship- its never good to continue with it. Meaning that you should probably just end it.
I could go into more detail.. but I'm kind of tired =D.
--Jack
(16/m)
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