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am i over him or not?
one day i had this dream about this guy named brooks and i used to like him for a long time. anyway in my dream brooks had some kind of heart disease and the doctors gave him these pills to take the pain away but it wasnt going to stop him from dying. so i guess you could say the pills killed him. and the doctor told him he was going to die at 5:48 a.m. so then im at the hospital outside brooks's "dying room". adn he was standing outside the room too and he looked really sad and none of his friends were there with him so it was just me and him. and he was crying so i kissed his cheek and he stopped crying and he hugged me three times and said ill miss you and then i left the room and the same heart disease thing happened to my dad and then i woke up crying. now i dont have feelings for brooks anymore so can you tell me if the dream could mean i still like him and care for him. the second thing is is that brooks used to like me back and he said i could tell him anything and talk to him if i had a problem and now we don't even talk. so i want to start a conversation and ask him why we havent talked but i dont know how to and id feel so nervous because hes been mean to me lately so i dont if he'll block me or not. could you give me some advice so i wont feel so nervous when i do start the conversation and how to ask him why we havent talked. and three. i feel like im over him but somedays i start to really miss brooks and find pictures of him to look at all day but when he has a girlfriend i dont feel jealous. and when he broke up with his girlfriend one day his away message on aim said upset and in a bad mood i need someone to talk to i felt really bad for him and wanted to talk to him but then i remebered that he hates me and probably wouldnt find comfort in me made me feel worse what is this feeling im having and how can i stop it? so here's a recap of my questions: 1. did the dream i have mean that i still care for brooks? 2. how can i get rid of my nervous feeling when i talk to him and how can i ask him why havent we been talking? should i have a friend over when i do it?. 3. do i still have feelings for him if i starting missing him and look at his pictures all day but dont care if he has a girlfriend but then feel really bad for him when he gets his heart broken ? sorry that this is so long but this question has been on my mind for a while and it feels good to let it out
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it sounds to me that you like him...and i say if you tell someone you would feel better...and you should tell him!!!! what have you got to lose?? and i think that your dream is telling you that you are not over him and you do still like him, but your afraid to admit it and afraid that if you dont tell him how you feel then time will run out....thats just what it sounds like to me....and you cant get rid of the nervous feeling honey it comes with the territory...you just gotta learn to take that stallion and ride it...just bring up the not talking thing casually...just be sweet and stay calm dont yell or badger him for questions...and dont have a friend over when you do it because then he might not open up all the way...guys dont want their friends to think they are gushy gushy with their feelings--well most guys...hope i helped!!
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