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lalaa less shy?
okay so i'm dating a guy who is great. he's the first guy i've dated after my last ex who hurt me pretty bad at the time. we've been dating for almost a month. we hold hands and hug but like how can i be more not shy? i'm shy about things like that sometimes, but i'm outgoing with everything else. i think i just have my guard up but i don't know..any advice?
14/f
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you probably do have your guard up still because you don't want to be hurt again. it's understandable and common. you just have to figure out whether this new guy is a good guy and he's not going to hurt you. once you know that for sure, you'll start easing up a little. it might just happen when you don't even notice it, but the thing you need to know is that he won't hurt you.
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Why are you shy? Is it because your scared of what others think? Maybe your feeling a little worried after your ex hurting you. Did you hold hands and stuff with your ex? Just give it time, you'll become more comfortable. I think you should talk to him so he doesn't get the impression your not into him or anything. You've been in a relationship for a month so you should be able to be open and honest with him, express your feelings...
Good Luck xx
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