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Hes a cheater..but i like him
So this guy named nolan is a huge cheater when it comes to having a girlfriend. He cheated on my friend and they broke up. But while they were going out he told me he liked me. now he likes me again and i like him. everyone says that he will cheat on me but i dont want to believe them. he told me he never would do that to me and he kinda convinced me.
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In the end, noone elses thoughts should influence your decision. It should all be down to you.
You know he is capable of cheating. You can either stick to "once a cheater always a cheater" or believe what he's saying to you. I can't imagine how hard that must be though.
Why did he cheat exactly? Wasn't he happy? Drunk?
Although there's never a good enough excuse for cheating, knowing why he did it may be a little break through. Also how many people he has cheated on would be helpful and what kind of relationship they were in (was it serious? how long were they together?) If it's once, I believe people can change. If it's more, then I personally feel they're not worth the time and effort. They obviously didn't learn their lesson the first time and are just taking everyone else for a fool.
You've pretty much answered your own question though. If he has convinced you, he's either really sorry for what he's done in the past, or he's a great liar.
People are only looking out for you when they say he will cheat on you. Who can blame them?
Anyway, to the point, if you do decide to give it a go, take things slow. Don't give everything up to him fast. and if you feel he's cheating, you really need to talk to him etc. If it turns out he does cheat on you, yes, you will be hurt, but you will dump his sorry good for nothing ass right there and then. NO more chances, okay?
Who knows, he may REALLY like you. If so, he would never cheat on you.
Make the right decision. and I hope things go great.
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