i was pregnant.. my boyfiend made me take a pill to kill the baby, i was about 1 momnth and 3 weeks along.. almost 2 months... i did not want to kill the baby, i wanted to keep it.. dont judge me on my actions.. thats not why im here..im here for help.. ok? well any ways.. i did this 2 nights ago (thursday night) and that night i was in horrible pains.. like cramps.. and he said i was supposed to bleed.. kind of lot he said... ok well i didnt bleed so much but i did bleed.. but the blood was kind of like.. mmmmm chunky i guess i can call it... i hope you understand what i mean.. ok and well i still feel a little wierd.. like i still have some cramps... but i still feel hungry all the time and dizzy and my breast still hurt and sometimes like i want to throw up... ok well my question is...
is there a possablity that the pills did not work and im still pregnant... i know i was bleeding and was bleeding in a strange way... and by bleeding in that strange way... does that mean the baby is now terminated... and all the things about me being hungry still dizzy wanting to throw up, is that just in my head and me wishing i was still pregnant or that my body hasnt like umm "realized" im not pregnant anymore.. or could i still be pregnant?
((now i really wish i still was, and i am going to the doctors next week.. but i dont want to get my hopes up thinking im still pregnant,because i really wanted this baby... but i need to know if there is a possablity if i stil could be... what do you think the percentage would be...))
please help me with this... should i stop hopling i still am... or just accept the fact that its gone....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? ammo answered Sunday November 4 2007, 7:19 pm: I will assume that you had been given the abortion pill to use by your doctor? Mifepristone and prostaglandin which you take 48 hours apart? If this is the case then I'd hate to be the bearer of bad news but yes, the pregnancy would have been terminated. The pills cause your womb to contract and shed its lining so that the embryo is lost through the vagina. This can be painful and some women feel sick or have vomiting and diarrhoea (because of the use of the drugs). The pill is effective for pregnancies up to 9 weeks old so the time frame would have not been a factor.
Judging from what you described (regarding the bleeding) that would have been the pill doing what it's designed to do thus terminating your pregnancy. I think hanging on to any hope is never a bad thing but I really wouldn't get your hopes up too much since everything you've described leads me to believe it had worked.
I pass no judgement on you or your decision since it's your body and decision to make but I will say, and emphasis, it's YOUR decision and YOUR body. If you had wanted to see this pregnancy through you should have said so and taken more time to discuss it with your other half and to try and come to another kind of arrangement perhaps. I say this only becuase it sounded very much like this was a decision that was made for you by your other half as opposed to a decision made and agreed upon by you both. [ ammo's advice column | Ask ammo A Question ]
Stephi-Giles answered Sunday November 4 2007, 7:17 pm: First of all , your boyfriend FORCED you to take the pills thats abuse or something ! and 2nd how old are you ?
Anyways , there is a possibility that you are still pregnant , you need to go to the doctors to be sure.Go to the doctor A-SAP because the stress from not knowing could harm the fetus further.
I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this because the way it seems , he has abused you and that IS illeagl !Please tell me how this is ? Message me or feedback or something Please !
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