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Question Posted Saturday November 3 2007, 8:33 pm

Okay, well, I like my friend. Like, as more than a friend. I didn't figure it out until maybe a week ago. Like, we've been friends for about 4 years now. We're not exceptionally close though. Although, our parents are friends.
I never felt that he liked me like that until Monday. Usually, I'm the one who always talks to him first at school. But now, he's always hanging around me. Like in gym, he'll come up and talk to me, instead of the other way around.
And before first period, he comes up and talks to me, or just says hi. He never did that before, except for maybe once or twice. And during lunch everyday, I'm always in the hall with my friend, Lindsay and then when he's done eating he'll come into the hall and talk to me, instead of go hang out with his friend, Matt.
I don't know, I might be getting ahead of myself. Or be jumping to conclusions.
And the main problem is, I don't want to tell him I like him, because, well, what if I'm wrong about him liking me and I get turned down and it makes things awkward between us?
And also, he's never had a girlfriend before. But then again, I've never really had a serious boyfriend.
And my friend Hannah is going to talk to him (without mentioning names).
Also, I think my other friend, Autumn, likes him. And I don't want to do that to her. I mean, I don't even date my friends' ex's. I asked her over the internet if she liked him, and she said she didn't know.
So, does it seem like he likes me? And how do I go about asking him out? Or telling him I like him, especially without hurting Autumn.


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Rissa88 answered Sunday November 4 2007, 1:06 am:
well honestly it seems like yall have a good thing going being just friends...think about it telling him you like him can make things really awkward and cud possibly ruin your friendship with him.guys are really strange when it comes to showing their feelings.have you ever seen how he has acted around girls that he likes?if he is acting that same way with you,maybe you cud risk it.think about it b4 you do anything.follow your heart but be careful.i hope things turn out well for you. goood luck!!!

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S0methingM0re answered Saturday November 3 2007, 11:58 pm:
Ok this is what Im going through too and I got this advice from my friend, SweetGuyBrokenHeart. I think you just have to tell him that you like him more than friends, but tell him that you dont want it to ruin your friendship if he doesnt feel the same way. You just have to tell him though, because if you dont you would be left wondering how he feels, and you would get nowhere. As for the part where your friend might like him too, You just need to talk to her about that too.

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