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Me and my Boyfriend, been together for a year and one week
Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and one week, he asked me to marry him April 17, i said yes. Now today on Saturday, November 03,2007 he tells me he cheated on me the first week we started going out, what do i do? How do i take this? Will this change my feelings for him? I am a female and Im 15 My Boyfriend or soon to be husband is 17 we started dating when he was sixteen. Thank you
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Sincerly
Karissa
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First of all, let me just tell you that you're going to hate me for saying the following.
I'm 15 and I can't imagine myself being engaged.
I would rather have a much better time being free, in a relationship, or just flirting with people.
Not being tied down by something so heavy as an engagement.
And let me tell you about guys that cheat.
Sure, they have really big guts to reveal they cheated. I give them kudos for that.
But the problem is that guys who got away for so long w/o his main girlfriend noticing WILL do it again.
He will, I promise to whoever I believe in, cheat on you again.
Who knows how many times he has cheated in the past?
Is he all clean? How do you know?
You can't.
Once he's cheated, he'll know he can do it again without any consequences if you decide to forgive him for that and marry him.
My advice for you in short words:
You're only 15. Please call off the engagement. He may seem like the whole, entire world to you and the best thing that has happened to you right now...but he's not. At least wait until you guys have both gotten into college and have a solid educational foundation to get married and build a family upon.
But I wouldn't suggest giving this guy a second chance.
Once they cheat, they'll cheat again.
No matter how sincere they look or how apologetic they sound.
Call off the engagement and see what happens from there on.
Sorry if this sounded more like a lecture than an advice. But I'm just trying to help in my own way. If you have anymore questions, e-mail me at emilylee_92@yahoo.com in the future to gt a quicker response.
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emily
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