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I SHOULD NEVER SENT THAT!!NOW I COULD B RUINED
In the summer i sent a pic i should have not...to one guy cause he begged ..but im not that way..i have not even kissed anyone..anyways i just now have had about 6 guys to tell me...the have seen it so what do i do please help me and if u ever been in this position please tell me so
i wont feel bad..thanx bye
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This is a tough one that could have some tough consequences! I don't know how old you are but I presume you are a minor.
What you should do (this is going to be hard!!) is actually go over to his house... unannounced would be best so he doesn't have a chance to hid it or get rid of it, and demand it back. Go when his parents are home so if he does not cooperate... you need to get the parents involved.
I also presume you sent this via e-mail or somehow electronically (fax or IM or something). You need to tell him he has to delete it and get completely rid of it from his computer. If he choses not to, (again, this will be hard but you MUST follow through) you will have your parents get involved and the two sets of parents will discuss how to handle the matter.
The fact is, you should NOT have sent that picture. BUT, if he is exploiting it and showing it around, he could possibly get into trouble for sharing child porn with others. Child porn is a HUGE lawsuit waiting to happen and this is your reputation he is holding for ransom.
If you aren't comfortable going this alone... you may need to tell your parents up front before even confronting him. You will undoubtedly be in trouble. You may likely loose your computer priviledges (as well as others) but how long will you be punished versus what can happen if this boy keeps access to this photograph? As angry as your parents may be to find this out though, I would assume their first instinct (after wanting to send you off to Switzerland) is going to be to protect you.
Hopefully you have learned a lesson here and you should explain that to your parents, along with being open that you are still innocent. You may be feeling that it is "none of their business" but this fact alone may help you get into less trouble than you would if your parents had the idea that you were a tart.
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If I'm reading between the lines correctly you sent a photo that showed you in an indecent manner? Well sadly you can't take that back. You can ask the guy you originally gave it to if he would delete it and delete any that you have, but others have already seen it and theres no guarantee that he'll actually delete it. Unfortunately this is one of those mistakes that you really can't correct. Once something is on the internet you can't take it back. Best case scenario is that you endure some teasing and this blows over quickly. Worst case scenario is that more people see it, the school gets wind of it and has to alert your parents. If the school and your parents get involved it is possible that the authorities will as well as I am guessing you're underage and most places have laws against indecent photos of minors. This is a big lesson you've learned young so in the future you'll know not to repeat it.
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