|
i cant get over this guy..
15/f
okay so i went to the beach back in the beginning of june and i met a bunch of guys. i kissed a couple of them, but this one for some reason, over four months later now, i still think about him everyday. i go on his myspace all the time and look at pictures of him from the beach like once a week. i play over little scenarios in my head of meeting him again somehow. this is not like me at all, ITS RIDICULOUS and i get mad at myself for it cause i know im never going to see him again, he lives like 6 states away from me. ive turned down guys at school bc i cant get this guy from the beach off my head. and i know hes long forgotten about me, i havnt talked to him in a couple months. what do i do!? is this even somewhat normal!?
any advice will be appreciated, sorry if its a little long..
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
kinda the same thing has happened to me, ill tell you what i ended up doing. Since he lives so far away, just talk to him on myspace. to start a convo message him and say something like. 'hey, its been a while. remember me ;]' or something short and simple like that. if he says yes then SMILE. thats a step you can skip, if he says no, dont be discouraged. kinda remind him, then see what happens. most likely, he WILL remember. then just talk, be yourself. DONT be clingy, and DONT talk to him all the time, every second of the day. that looks obsessive, and might freak him out. just be cute about it. once yall are talking you can make plans to go somewhere close to where he is for a vacation, just so you can spend more time with him. it possibly will develop. i cant tell you for sure.. bc im at the vacation planning part lol. hope this helped, feel free message me if you wanna know something else!
]
If your having these feelings.. you should get to know this guy more... and so what if he's 6 states away... i have plans on meeting a guy who lives over 1700 miles away... about 6 states.. people can fall in love over the interent/phone calls or whatever... if you are having so many fantasies about this guy... then you need to do something about it.. I'd hate for you to think in 10 years you let a big part of your life slip by,... and if it doesn't help.. then whocares?! you can move on to other guys!
Good Luck
<<jess>>
]
More Questions: |