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how can i get over my ex. i really liked him and im really have a tough time being happy.

you just need to relize that he wasn't the right person for you... it might be hard now.. but give it some time... take some time and do the things you used to do before you started dating this guy... also start some new things... i just started a new hobby:making balloon animals with friends.. its fun.. and gives us lots of laughs which is something you need to do...
Just relize you wanted so much to be with the wrong person. Think how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.
good luck...

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I need help! This is about gifts for my boyfriend. I'm not quite sure what to do. I have a very low budget but I'm a very crafty/artsy person. I already made him a teddy bear with wings. But I want to buy him something cheap yet great as the months go on by it increases in value..

UI want something good for Christmas, then for his birthday in Feb and 10 days after that is our 1 year anniversary. I'm not sure what I should get for him since I have no job right now. Any ideas?

I want something very sweet & romantic for our 1 year. But i really don't know what.. I want to make a book and fill it up with things... but I don't know exactly what yet.

for his birthday... i'd say throw him a surprise birthday party.. act like you think his birthday is a different day... example: "I can't wait for your birthday next week" say that on the day of his birthday... that way he'll be even more surprised... then have someone.. a close friend or something take pictures of the party.. also some of him and you... you could make a scrap book out of these.. then make poems and put them in the book... you don't have to make them personally.. i bet you could find some cute ones on the internet....
hope everything works out!

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I'm turning 16 on december 20th, and I still don't know what to do!

I feel like I NEED to have a little celebration..you only turn 16 once ;]

Well..It's probably too late to throw a huge party at some place with a dj and everything, plus I'm not sure who I'd invite (I don't have like a huge amount of friends:\)..Soo, I was thinking of having a few of my closest friends and I go somewhere special, maybe out to dinner and something else..but what?! I can't think of anything else. I wanna do something special that will be remembered my everybody, especially me. I live in New jersey,if that makes a difference. Keep in mind that my birthday is in December, so it will probably be very cold. I might not even have this until January since my birthday is so close to Christmas. Soo, any ideas? My mom keeps asking me what I want to do but I JUST DON'T KNOW! Thanks so much!

happy early birthday!....:)
I say the dinner things sounds great! theeeen.... if you find a photographer and have your closest friends dress up.. have like a theme of what you wear... something fun to dress up in.. then after you get the pictures... have another party and this time.. make a photo albumns! this could be really fun and can bond you guys together.. then you'll also have the memories..
If you do this.. take a regular camera to.. this way you can catch all the candid shots!
Hope this helped.. and hope you have a fun birthday!

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15/f
okay so i went to the beach back in the beginning of june and i met a bunch of guys. i kissed a couple of them, but this one for some reason, over four months later now, i still think about him everyday. i go on his myspace all the time and look at pictures of him from the beach like once a week. i play over little scenarios in my head of meeting him again somehow. this is not like me at all, ITS RIDICULOUS and i get mad at myself for it cause i know im never going to see him again, he lives like 6 states away from me. ive turned down guys at school bc i cant get this guy from the beach off my head. and i know hes long forgotten about me, i havnt talked to him in a couple months. what do i do!? is this even somewhat normal!?

any advice will be appreciated, sorry if its a little long..

If your having these feelings.. you should get to know this guy more... and so what if he's 6 states away... i have plans on meeting a guy who lives over 1700 miles away... about 6 states.. people can fall in love over the interent/phone calls or whatever... if you are having so many fantasies about this guy... then you need to do something about it.. I'd hate for you to think in 10 years you let a big part of your life slip by,... and if it doesn't help.. then whocares?! you can move on to other guys!
Good Luck

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Ok so I have a "friend" who lives like 8 hours away. We've been friends but i just recently moved and now we've been talking. We are like bf/gf but not actually. He and his chick friend[she has a bf] came to my place to visit so we could go to a theme park a few weeks ago and he slept with me and she slept on the couch. And we had sex[i'm 19and he's the second person i've ever had sex with..and i'm his 3rd]. They only stayed a day and then they had to go back home. I expected that we would finally be official but he told me that he was confused and he didn't know if it would work..he's also going into the army in like a month.And then the other day we talked and he still said that he really really likes me alot but he doesn't know how it will work. And so, but he still calls me baby and still acts like we are b/f and g/f but theoretically we are nothing so i'm soooo confused. SOMEONE TELL ME WHATS GOIN ON!!

..there's a possibility he's using you for sex... He might like you.. and want to start something after he is back from the army... but it might just be the right thing at the wrong time.. or a fun night before army...
hope i was helpful...

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okkay well lets see, friday i was with my bf and we were talking about what we were going to do saturday. && he was like im not doing anything, and i was liike okkay well then maybe we should do sumthinn together. and he was like yeah sounds good. so that nite he called me and he was like okay i am sure i can do summthin tomorow and i was like okay and we just decided i should go to his house. so i called him when i woke up and he said he will call when he gets about to leave from breakfast so i was like okay sounds good. so he calls and says hes about to leave so i get ALL READY and btw his parent LOVEE ME! and i was like are you sure i can come. and hes like POSITIVE. so he calls when im on my way to his house and hes like okay well im back from breakfast but my parents saaid no to you cumming over. i was like whyy? what happpened? and hes like nuttin idk but noone can come over today. SOO that nite i went to a friends house and she were like i talked to your bf today and he went to his X's (kori) house, and him and kori hung out. and hes having a big party 2nite with all his friends. so i was like WAIITT. he was with kori? && having a party 2nite AFTER HE SAID NOONE CAN CUMM OVER. and so i called him and when i said i HAVE to talk to him he was like well i have to go. talk to you tommorow. bye. and i was like WOAHHH.. and he hungg up. now i have been told that he still likes kori. so that made me more mad. so if all this is ture, should i give him a 2nd chance? or is that bad enough what he did? helpp! && thannks. sorry so longg. thanks for reading! =]]

Sometimes an ex can still be a big part of a person's life... i bet your boyfriend still liked his ex... and he is just giving you reasons to break up with him so he can have his ex... i know this sucks.. but guys are more times than not afraid of emotion and as hard to believe.. they don't like to hurt people... he cares for you i'm guessing.. but just cares for kori a little bit more... My advise tell him how you got hurt and let him see what happens with kori... If he wants that second chance.. give it to him.. if everything goes okay with his ex.. then you also need to move on.
good luck with everything! best of wishes

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I need an idea for a picture with shadows in it for my photography class.
any ideas? please.

I'm not to sure if this will work but it would be cool::
get a bright light and have two people in front of it.. holding hands.. or something simular to that... and then get there shadow so it would be in front of them... you would get the people and their shadow..
hope it works!....

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There is a private, christian school that Im interested in and my parents went to an open house today. They told me there are only about 24 kids in my whole grade and in my current biology class i have more than that! You have to understand my school and grade is HUGE there is about 750-800 kids in my grade ALONE and now my grade would have less kids then a class of mine. Im afraid of having this little amount of students because there are so little oppurtunities to make friends. On the other hand they all seem very nice and i will be shodowing a student for half the day later this next week. Im excited and would love to change to this school but i have more friends than there whole grade. And what about dating? How can you date boys when there are a whole 13 in your grade? If anyone has experienced this and has some advice i would love it!!! I really want to go to this school but there are so little kids! But also because of this and thats its a christian private school im sure they are all very nice and i really am looking for some great christian friends because you dont find that many even if you do go to a school as large as mine! Thanks again and i wil rate everyones helpful advice!!!!

First off-- i went to a small school.. only it was tinier! 13 kids.. including me... Honestly.. i loooved it... everyone got along so it was like having 13 BEST friends.. also since its a small school and people are used to not having alot of friends.. so they'll almost ALWAYS include you in things... and for dating.. theres always grade above you.. and below.. also.. usually theres if there's a small christian school.. there will be a public school.. and you can alwasy meet guys in that school too.. The only thing that is really bad about small schools is the fact if you get in a fight.. you have to face them the whole day.. and people will choose side... If your nice/fun to be with then i'm sure you won't have a problem.. and if your not hapy with the school you have now.. then why not try something new?
good luck with your problems! hope i was useful!

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i really want to dye my hair brown. it's sort of a dirty blonde right now. i was just wondering if it would look good on a person with dark blue eyes, medium skin tone, medium/long hair with sidebangs, if you want a picture give me your email and ill send you one, i just don't want the whole site seeing it. thanks so much!

the brown will make your eyes seem a little but brighter.. so i'd say go for it... but make sure you don't get a REALLY dark color... try a dark blond or something simular... it'll be darker... it always does... also.. i wouldn't go with an ash color... they always add some grayish yellow to the tint... and if you do color your hair.. make sure you read directions! and by conditionor and shampoo for colored hair so you won't damage hair so much...

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My boyfriend keeps saying "i wish you could do this" as in the splits.. for sex. because then we would have more variety with positions.. but I can't do it! I'm out of shape and I have a deficiency in magnesium.. so if I try stretching or doing a little more than I can handle, I get bad cramps and my toes may pop out of joint :[ I don't know what to tell him.. because I'm never going to be able to do the splits any time now or in the next year.. I've always wanted to but i just don't bend that way

What are some good positions without much flexibility?
Away from missionary & girl on the top stuff.
What are some stretches that I could do ?
And foods that I need to put into my diet?

i would like to stop getting muscle cramps for the little things i do. sex isn't that much enjoyable when i get cramps in my legs. [even when it's missionary!]

Fisrt off.. i'm an assistant gymnastics coach... and getting to learn the splits takes some practice... if you REALLY want to learn how to do this... then you'll have to stick to what im about to tell you::
if you practice everyday for 5 min or more you'll get there in a couple of weeks... sometimes less.. but you need to get into the splits.. go down as far as you can.. hold it... turn to the other side.. and do the same.. then try the middle.... then redo all of the splits only this time go down a little more... push yourself... and hold it again... MAKE SURE YOU STETCH FIRST!
and about your diet:: never eat just because your bored... and if your full.. then DON"T EAT! drink some water before you eat... that'll make your stomache feel more full...
hope this helped:: good luck on your problem

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well, about three months ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and we had been dating for about five months(we have been on and off for about two years though). Well, four days after we broke up he started dateing this other girl who is just well strange, and well now, i like him again, and yeah he goes out with this other girl still but it seems like he flirts with me alot.
FOR EXAMPLE:
-he texts me alot.
-he always tries to hang out with me.
-whenever i bring up another guy he is always curious if i have done anything with him.
-when he found out that i had a bf(a few mohts ago but we broke up) he acted kinda pissed, and then he decided that he didnt care...

do you think he actually like me or do you think that hes just being nice?

well when someone loves you... they're always going to love you...idk if you guys did love each other... but there had to be something with the two year on-off-again relationship... when he sees you with another guy... flashbacks of you guys will mostlikely pop into his head... and he will miss you and do the things you told about... there's always that possibilty that he likes you still... and your gonna miss him too... i personally know its no fun to be alone after so long... but sometimes... things just aren't right...
good luck.. and hopes everything works out right for you

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