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my boyfriends sister.... arrrrghh! helppp!
Ok so my boyfriend has a sister who is wiked wiked manly. Shes 2 grades older than me and plays football for the school and I cheerlead for the school. Her name is kelsey. I heard from people before that she hates me because she thought I was a stuck up snob, which is the complete opposite of what I am. I litterally never even looked at this girl, or talked to her and she dislikes me for like no reason. Today at the game, she was yelling out to her team on the field and she was in front of me and my friend jamie. Jamie turns to me and says was that a girl? It sounds like a guy. And we both started laughing. I didnt think she would hear us, but she did. Kelsey took off her helmet and turned around and gave me such a scary look. Then she ran to brad (my boyfriend) and told him what happened. Then brad turned around and looked at me and shook his head. I dont know what to do about this. Me and brad are really starting to get serious and I really like him but obviously theres going to be a problem if kelsey continues to be like this. What should I do???
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Uhm , I can kind of see why she called you a "stuck up snob" . You made fun of her because of her looks , Which she can NOT help .
If you wanna stay with "Brad" maybe try being nicer to his sister and try talking to her instead of laughing at her . Maybe you could even help her look nicer .
I really don't think us advicenators can do mcuh , You know your boyfriend best , Talk to him .
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Well this is also going to be a problem if you keep badmouthing her, regardless of whether she can hear you or not.
If you want to repair the relationship between you and his sister, you are going to have to start, by telling Jamie that was a mean thing to say and telling Kelsey you are sorry for laughing at Jamie's stupidity.
That is step number one. Step number two would be to ask her, or your boyfriend, if she really does have a problem with you and what you could be do about it.
You've got a problem babe, and it's not going to be solved by her changing. It will be solved by YOU changing you approach and attitude.
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if you go to brads alot then just talk to kelsey there. but next time you talk to brad just tell him how you feel about his sister, and how you think that she hates you for no reason.. tell brad that you really like him and that you dont want something this stupid to come between you two. If you talk to kelsey and work it out and she is still mean to you thhen its not your fault becasue you tried to work it out.. i wouldnt worry abut it because you said you didnt do anything to her. and about the thing that happened at the football game just tell her your sorry and you didnt think it was her.. and if brad is mad at you abotu that then just talk to him.
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