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Nurse costume.
Hi, I'm going to a Halloween party tomorrow and I just bought a sexy nurse costume. This is way out of the ordinary for me, I'm usually all covered up, and I'm a bit of a bigger girl. I'm not a 'popular' girl, but I'm friends with all of them, and they will all be at the party along with their boyfriends & such. I'm just feeling like I made a mistake buying this 40 dollar costume, I feel like people are going to be talking about me behind my back, about how I look in it, and why is she wearing that? and stuff like that. So, I guess I just need some confidence boosters here. Cause, it's non returnable, and I'll feel horrible if I don't wear it, because I made my mom pay this much. I guess, what can I do to block out negative thoughts about wearing this costume?
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You bought it on impulse, but you can decide how to dress it up or down, and you can tone down the sexiness a bit for your comfort level. Wear appropriate make-up, shoes that are not too high, and even tights, leggings or shorts and an undershirt beneath the costume. It feels good to be sexy, but less is more. The difference between feeling sexy and just trampy is a big deal, so be careful. You can always have a sweater over it and go from there. A little mystery is sexier than laying it all out there. Sexiness is also in your attitude, confidence and intelligence. No matter what happens, look people in the eyes, hold your head up and speak authentically. Most of the time everyone else is worried about their own appearances, and insecurities to notice everyone else's. Also, women tend to be more critical then the guys, so lighten up and enjoy yourself.
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Don't go into the party being self-conscience. Wear that outfit like your the sexy girl you are. People will see your confidence and will respect you.
But if you don't normally wear that kind of stuff and you go there all shy and reserved and wondering if their talking aobut you..they will notice. And that will make them talk. Do you get what I mean?
Good luck!
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MEliSSA
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