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I was a total wreck in school but since I'm in high shcool thsi year, I thought that I could start fresh.
I want to be peoples' friends but I'm really shy about how to like get up to talk. I can't randomly say "hey can i be your friend?" even though i want to.
I have a kid liek brain so I dunno, there's some people i found in my class that i want to be friends with so i thought that i should first start by adding them on Facebook.
I'm even too nervous to simply add them because adding them as friends means that they are ym friend! >.<
I invited some and for a mesege i wrote "I hope we can be friends!"
Do you think that's ok? retarded? please, give your opinions and advice, im open
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honestly, everyone in my grade would laugh at someone who messaged them saying that and they would tell all of their friends and you'd become the laughing stock of the school. No joke.
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That was a good idea! You sound kinda like my sister. She used be really shy... And nice, but yea. All my sister did to not be shy was force herself to talk even though she's shy. I do that too. I used to be. I kinda still am. I try to yell out whatever pops into my head so I'm not shy. I hope this helped a bit! ^/___^
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go for it. they don't know you, so they shouldn't really judge you. just be your own person so when they talk about you they can say "oh yeah that's that one kid who..." and not have to say "oh they act different all the time". don't be too desperate either. friends (good friends) come with time. just talk to them in class, pay attention, help them out with work. it works best. once you make one friend, and you're doing a work group type thing, ask if you could join and then talk to the rest of them.
just be yourself, really.
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