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Is that all it takes?
I'm 15/f a sophmore. Ok, I'm not here to complain how I don't have a boyfriend (though it would be nice) However all the relationships I see in school are mostly based on if the girl "puts out" or not. I'm friends with mostly guys and I hear them talk about girls as if they are only sex toys it's disgusting. I think I'm decent looking and I wear jeans and a t-shirt everyday, but... is that the reason I don't have a guy, because I don't put out my body for everyone to touch and see?
Thanks in advance,
JJ
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To be honest, in our times, it kinda is. Of course it's nothing to be ashamed of, and it's no excuse to fall into their category of "normal". This is why i myself chose not to have a boyfriend, but rather go to school to do what i was put there to do, and i walk around proud of being different. And yes, it does make you unique, no matter what others say. Think about it, if in any case you do put out, or start wearing over the top clothing, you'll just be one more for the guys to snicker and talk about your "attributes" at lunch. Keep in mind that even though you demand respect, you are also young and have a right to dress as sexy as you want to, and leave some to the imagination, as long as you're comfortable. Hope this helped <3.
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If you try to find a guy by wearing less clothes then you'll only attract a guy that's interested in your looks and your body. Unfortunately, a lot of guys are jerks, but don't subject yourself to that. Dress how you like, be who you are, and eventually you'll find a great guy who really likes you for you.
::Jasmine::
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