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Sexual fanatasy
My boyfreind of 3 years ask me last night to fatasize with him. I don't have alot of trouble with this in most instances..... he's 56 I'm 53. Better then Viagara.... But last night He wanted to play that he was with his ex girlfriend making love and when they where done he wanted to play that I was with her. Gross! I normally play with him and enjoy it. He does not recipricate. He hardley touches me at times. I get it that guys love to think of two women together. but he has gone too far in his thinking here as far as I'm concerned. What now? And Why?? would he feel this need?? if you have any insite???
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There is nothing wrong with Fantasy and role playing. I think I would draw the line at pretending to be an ex girlfriend. Thats a bit over the top!
You need to tell him how you feel about all this.
Not at the time when you are being intimate, but sometime before the next time. Just tell him it makes you uncomfortable, and why you are willing to explore some of his other fantasy's, that one is not good for you.
You also need to tell him how & where you want to be touched. That in itself could be a turn on for
you both. There is nothing wrong with talking about this with him. It is possible that he hasn't a clue how to please you. Once he does, that too will make it better for him.
I don't know why men like that particular fantasy.
I guess the more women the better in their minds!
Just let him know you don't like that one. :)
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