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evil ex boyfriends sister. ugh
alright so my boyfriend and i just broke up ( he did it) i think his older sister ( who hates me for no reason ) talked him into all this, bc i sent her a message about a week ago that said...Hi:]
i heard you're in town for a little bit, maybe me you n [bfs name]could like go to a movie or eat or something, its been like a year now and ive never really talked to you, itd be cool to get to know you some time. ttyl
and after he broke up with me ( which he had no real reason to do) she replied with... :-D
...or not
and she commented him before with " i hope you considered what we talked about". and he like looks up to her. well i want to know how i can make him guilty or realize hes wrong for listening to her, without being super obvious. any suggestions? thanks :] i really love him and if this is her doing i want it to be fixed and i dont know how.
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Listen, if he is going to be more than willing to allow his sister to dictate who he dates and who he doesn't, (you know, running his life for him) then no matter what you say, no matter what you do, he is going to go to HER for advice. If she convinced him to break up with you, then she will convince him to stay away.
Listen, I know you say you really love the guy, but in order to keep your heart from getting stomped on any further, you need to consider moving on with a guy who is man enough to live his own life as he sees fit.
I mean, that is what you deserve.
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I think thats great that you wanted to get to know her, and she sounds kinda mean. Since he looks up to her, trying to make her look wrong can only make you look bad.
What you can do is want you back. Move on, play hard to get but be friends with him. Show him all the stuff he used to love about you. Win him back. But take the highroad. If he dosent want you, you cant change that so if it dosent work after a while, move on and let him go. Its unfortunate that his sister had to interfere, but its not a perfect world and you cant change it.
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