does she like me and should i ask her for her email address?
Question Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 11:00 pm
im a guy im 13. i like this girl alot and i told her last school year on valentines day in a love letter and i dont know if she likes me and i did ask her in the letter if she liked me but never said a thing. i talked to her this year and i asked her if she read it she said yesthen i asked her what she thought she said something but it was realy realy quite it sounded like a hamber siziling then i said say something even if its stupid which now i think was stupid but she laughed then i told her why cause
i didnt want to annoy her then now we hardly talk or never but every time we see ecother i look at her then the looks at me but she doesnt talk to me any more but she talks to this other boy alot but i think their friends cause every one thinks hes not straight and he agreed i think but her friends like sheild her away from me and my friends sorta do the same does me like me or does she hate me but to nice to say that.she smiles around me and if its sorta funny she laughs and shes sorta shy i think (i think)
From there:
I'm going to start off by saying this: if a girl smiles A LOT when she's around you, she probably likes you as more than a friend.
The Top 5 other things to look for:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.
2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.
3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.
4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.
5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.
Even though every girl is different, these are the top 5 things girls do when they like a guy. So, chances are, if she's holding your hand and texting you saying :" Hey whatcha up to? :)", chances are she's doing it all for a reason.
felishax22 answered Monday July 28 2008, 12:26 am: hey im a 13 year old girl. I think she is just playing hard to get. What you should do you is play hard to get too then she will start paying more attention to you.
BTW when your around her try to make her laugh (not corny jokes) girls love funny guys(: [ felishax22's advice column | Ask felishax22 A Question ]
Shaybo20 answered Sunday July 27 2008, 11:46 pm: Well the only way to know for sure is by going up to her and having a conversation with her about your feelings. You did say that she may be a shy girl and believe me girls like that usually become extremely timid around boys they like. They won't go around them nor talk to them. She may like you, but is afraid of something. I think you should ask her if she would like to hang out and then when the two of you are away from everyone else bring up the fact that you like her and ask if she likes you. Good luck [ Shaybo20's advice column | Ask Shaybo20 A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday July 27 2008, 11:05 pm: 1. Like you said, she is shy. Shy girls don't know what to say when they recieve a love letter so they drift away. She could like you or she couldn't. Who knows. I think you should take it slow and just talk to her in the halls without her friends and your friends. Make the air comfortable for her to breath in. Those smiles could be a good sign. Smile back like usual and talk to her!
2. Possbly she is being nice about it and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Go slowly so you will know if she likes you or not. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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