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What is my heart telling me?
f/15
i was just wondering, what would happen if you start to like a friend of yours in which has always been your friend. I can't tell if i have feelings for this person but i love him, i mean as a friend. I don't see him that much anymore but he is still close to me and i talk to him on the phone somtimes and sometimes on the computer. i just can't tell what i am feeling. i don't know if i feel this because he is just a really nice guy or if i just want someone to like. i think about him often at random times and sometimes i think about how cool it would be if we were together but i really dont' know how it is. i was jsut wondering, if you could help me in any way. i don't know if my heart is telling me somthing and i am trying to ignore it or what. if you could help, i would appreciate it but if you do't know how to answer then that is ok to. but i thought you might be a good person ot ask this because you like to answer these types of questions. thanks in advance!!
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Hello!
First of all, I would like to sincerely apologize for the time it has taken me to respond to you. Since you asked this question back in October, and it is now June of the next year, it's been awhile, and I'm sorry about that.
Sometimes as teenagers, we believe that we NEED a relationship, whether it be for a sense of fulfillment, for popularity, or for any number of reasons. Sometimes, we also want relationships because we think we like people and we want to experiment and see if it would work out.
Unfortunately, the majority of teenage relationships fail because they are just experiments, just for popularity, or just because we feel we NEED that relationship.
If you want to date your friend, then that's quite alright. I'm not trying to tell you it isn't. If you don't want to date your friend, then that, too, is quite alright.
Dating as a teenager can be whatever you make it. It can be non existent, mild, or it can be 24/7/365. Whether you chose to continually have a relationship or not, it's fine.
Do what YOU feel comfortable with. So if you think it would be nice to date your friend, try it out ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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