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Will he, or should he take me back?
So my boyfriend of 9 months and I broke up about 4 months ago. We are both young (high school age) and I needed a little time on my own without the seriousness of a relationship like the one we had. I love him, and still love him to this day.
So now four months later I have found myself missing him more then ever before. But when I broke up with him I hurt him badly. His first heartbreak that he had ever felt. So I can see why he would be hesitant to get back together.
But Ive let him know i miss him more then ever, still love him and want him back.
I'm still waiting for his reply..
Advice?
Guys- What would you do in the situation?
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You have let him know how you feel. That is the best you can do. Talk to him, don't just leave him to think about it.
If you don't get some sort of response soon then I doubt he is still interested. Most people tend to move on during a breakup, and you are at an age where you are changing pretty fast. Feeling easily change, especially if you've been hurt. Nobody wants to go through that any more than they have to.
Don't give up, just don't wait around forever for an answer either. If you don't get a response from him soon and feel you can discuss it with him, do that. If not quietly move on. :)
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First of all, don't take this too offensively-this happens to most relationships that last longer than five months-You need to think about if you miss him as HIM or if you miss having a boyfriend...? I know that it can seem like a general question but just think, and think hard. The certain things that you miss about the relationship. If it is from his personality then you most likely miss HIM, but if it is something that boyfriends usually do, you might just be missing having a boyfriend. You can understand why he's hesitant, thats good!! The best way to go from here is to sit down and discuss with him about what you want and what he wants. If you both want to get back into this relationship and if you are both ready for it, then I do suggest getting back into a relationship with him. But, remember that if some other guy gives you advice on whether he'd get back together with you, that he was not there those nine months. They might just tell you what you want to hear or they might be a little too blunt or unsure since they were not there to see or even experience what happened.
Yeah, but you should talk it out. It would be for the best. (:
The best of luck!
Sincerely,
-jimmy.
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