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i'm very arguementative and i'd liek to stop.
i've grown up with my mother always nitpicking about everything, so when anything, no matter how tiny it is, bothers me...i complain about it, usually to or at my boyfriend.... if a girl comments him or comes down to his work places (a gas station and convient store) to talk to him, i wanna know EVERYTHING and when he doesn't tell me every lil detail, i get really suspicious, and when he finally gets a day off or some time off and i actually get him to come over, if he doesn't most the time with just me and doesn't stay awake, i complain. i really need to learn how to stop this. i mean i know i need to learn to understand and thats probably what you'll tell me. or to just shut up. but i need some REAL advice and insight on this. I want my boyfriend time back, and I want to not ruin it, and I want to be able to not argue with him because he doesn't seem to have enough time for me. convient only on weekends.
*~lonely girlfriend kid~*
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i think you should learn trust because thats a key part of any relationship and as for the nitpicking. when ever somthing happens that causes you to nitpick just simply tell yourself that nitpicking is wrong and walk away
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Well, if your boyfriend is the honest type...like the kind who would never cheat on you..then you can take it easy. I know small things tend to bother us..but set yourself goals/aims such as if you don't get bothered about more then 5 things in a week/two weeks then you can buy yourself a little treat. Don't try to stop completely, but think about the things. If it is a small thing then ignore it..if it is something bigger then think about it before you start asking him.
Hope this helped somehow :)
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