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I'm utterly at a loss about what to do
So I broke up with my boyfriend, kinda. We're 'taking a break'. He says he'll wait for me but I don't have much time. I just... don't know what to do because I don't know how I feel about him and it's not fair to leave him hanging. He's a great guy but he's hurt a lot of girls before, and he has cheated on me but 'he didn't go far'. I might have feelings for this other guy but it could never work because he's always high and in trouble. So fuck. I'm confused. What should i do?
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If your boyfriend has cheated on you before, there is nothing to be 'confused' about. It doesn't matter how far he went, what matters is that he cheated on you. Why you settled to take him back thinking he'd somehow change is beyond me. I try not to go by 'Once a cheater, always a cheater' because some people really do change, but he's hurt girls before; so why did you think he wouldn't do that to you.
If this other kid is always high & in trouble, what is so attractive about him? There's nothing wrong with getting in trouble every once in a while because everyone needs excitement, but nobody should need drugs to have fun. Both of these guys sound pretty lame, so I honestly think you should stay single for a while. You're so confused on what to do that getting back into a relationship would probably hurt you. Your best bet is to stay single.
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ok first of all if your boyfriend is a great guy than stick with him. just give it time and things will fall into place. stay away from the high guy. people aren't in there right minds when they are high so if he is high all the time then why do you even want him? maybe he is cute. but if he is getting high all the time he won't be pretty much longer. talk to your boyfriend about the cheating thing. maybe you just need too spend a little time with him. I say you probably really love him. Hope I helped.
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