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I'm finally meeting my long-distance crush!
Okay, so for the better part of a year I've been messaging/texting this guy who I met through a mutual friend. He lives in North Carolina, so even though we've been talking for almost a year, we've never met face to face. He's hysterically funny, and we have the same taste in music and movies. He's really smart, and all around, he's the kind of guy I'd really go for. But because of the distance (I live in Illinois), I never really thought pursuing anything would be worth it.
But then::: He texts me the other day and he's passing through my town on his way to his sister's. So he and I and some of my friends are going to be actually hanging out for the first time ever, for an entire day!! I'm really nervous.
So here's what I need:: I need a way to impress him the moment we meet with something really funny/clever to say or do. He's always making me laugh, and he once told me that a girl who can be goofy and not care about what others think is a major turn-on.
Also, any tips you can give me on how to just be cool and funny and remind me to be myself around him would be great. thanks!
-Nervously Waiting
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just be yourself. he says he likes girls who don't care what other people think, DO Just that. be yourself guys hate when girls fake. if he is really wanting to meet you than be yourself cause he wants to meet you and not some fake person. If he didn't like your personality when you talked and messaged he would have probably ended it a long time ago so just be yourself. HOPE i helped.
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You don't need to concentrate on impressing by being cool and funny. Just say the kind of thing that you would normally say via text message. Try a really nice, but laid-back outfit and try to look your best. Joke a lot, tease by jokingly jabbing, and be yourself. If you start to realize that you're acting differently, start acting like you normally would. Good luck!
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