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Walmart Man
I'm 17/f, both guys involved are 21.
I've been dating my bf for a little over a year but until about a month ago, I thought this guy was my future husband. Now I'm just not sure. He's absolutely perfect; my "ideal" guy, if I had one. But like I said, I'm just a bit confused and I have been for a while now.
Today at a casual trip to Walmart, I passed by a random guy and we just smiled at each other. After a few min of playing peek a boo through the isles, we started talking. Before long, we were in a back of a what seemed to be an abandoned isle hardcore making out. If it were possible, there would have been steam. It then moved to his car where we continued to fool around a bit. I however stopped it before it got too far, although I already crossed a very serious line.
Now I'm completely dumbfounded as to what to do. My bf is amazing and I've betrayed his trust. This guy is truly wonderful, all way keeps me on my feet, never predictable, sweet, funny, smart, you name it..oh yes and hott. But there's just something that isn't...right. I've talked to him about this numerous times and have felt 100 times better after doing so. I can't however keep having that same conversation with him every other day. that'd be ridiculous.
I'm templed to call up the Walmart man just for fun. I'd never want to peruse a relationship with him, obviously. He doesn't exactly seem like a "relationship type" of guy. But he's all I've been thinking about for the past 10 hours.
So I'm just looking for any advice on what to do.
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I think that the problem you have is that at 17 you arent ready to be married. Possibly to even be committed.
Do not cheat. Its one of the worst things someone can do to a person, and it leaves lasting emotional and mental trauma to most people youll ever meet.
If things arent working with the 21 year old, then figure that out and break it off. Be honest with him and with yourself.
Until you do that, stay away from ... oh yeah, well the other 21 year old.
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I disagree with the columnist below me. If you're in a relationship, you do NOT get with others.
If you're planning on staying with your boyfriend, the obvious thing to do is not contact the other man. This way you won't be lusting over him and do something you'll probably regret - like cheating again.
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uh obviously you would cheat on him again since you did it the first time. your not a good girlfriend for even wanting to do anything with anyone else and then going threw with it was even worse. so dont tell me its wrong to cheat on him again because i know its wrong to even do it once but i dont think you do.
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