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How do I prove it?
I really love this guy as I have already said but how do I prove I love him, he wont belive me when I just tell him and I have said a load of things like I would gladly kill for him and I would walk over the tallest mountain and all of that stuff but he still doesnt belive me so please please please help... I'm desperate!... I really need some pointers fast so any would be helpful... I don't care how stupid I just want an answer or a few... thanks
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Everyone has their own "love language"... the way they experience and understand love. For some people, hearing the words "I love you" and other nice things is enough. Other people need certain actions to feel loved... doing little favors for them, or spending special time alone with them. Some people feel most loved when they're given gifts. And some people need physical closeness to feel loved... and I don't just mean sex, I mean just hugging or cuddling or being close.
You need to figure out what your boyfriend's love language is, so you can express your love in the way he can best understand it. Because if you're talking to him in your OWN love language, he may not be getting the message. One way to figure it out is to look at the way HE shows his love for you. Does he do a lot of nice things for you? Does he buy you stuff? Does he always want to cuddle and be close? The way he shows his love for you is probably the way he needs to be shown love by you.
Good luck!
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Well, I'm not sure hoe old you are but in my experience with guys like that is they want you to "prove it" sexually. I may be way off, not all guys are the same. If it true however, don't do anything with him just to prove your love. You shouldn't have to do that.
If he feels the same way as you, he shouldn't ask you to prove anything. Does he tell you that he loves you? If he does then ask him to prove it as well. Just as a taste of his own medicine.
Then again, some people are just very insecure and find it hard to believe other do in fact love them because they've been hurt in the past. I don't know your guy so it's pretty much up to you to think of the type of person he is and decided why he might be doing this.
If you think it's just the insecurity then do something really cute like...make a poster of the top 10 reasons you love him. Make all your reason genuine, not "you're hott" but something like "you listen to me when no one else does" and things like that. The on the back write him a letter about how you can't keep proving things to you because it's pushing you away and he needs to understand how you actually feel.
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Some people are just insecure and won't believe you no matter what you say. If he doesn't trust that you like him, he needs time. Just wait it out and he'll either come around or he won't. You'll just have to see.
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