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im worried...
i talked to you before...(about same topic except with new info)...i got fed up with all the crap of everybody cuz i had this secret about me likin this guy. everyone knew but him and i wanted to tell him. so i did through a note. and he was actually nice about it...i think the only person that knows is his friend danny. but now when he sees me he giggles and smiles. what does that mean?? and also when i told my friends they said i was an idiot for doing that. they really made me feel like crap and i started to cry. only 3 of my friends said that it was couragous and they could never do something like that. but should i feel bad and not have told him? because the secret was eating me alive. i was going crazy from it. i was always sitting at home wondering what would happen if i told him but now i dont do that. i just told him today but still. i dont regret it, im just worried...plz help me!
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Well, if he acts all giggly around you, it really depends. I'd ask him how he felt about the note, in private, with nobody else around. I think it WAS courageous of you to admit your feelings, if that counts for anything =]
I could never do that, I can barely talk to the guy I like without internally freaking out, but enough about me!
And as for your friends, they don't sound like good friends. I'd let them know that what they said hurt you, and to stop doing it, cause it's so not cool. And for the 3 friends that stood by you, thank them for not being immature about it and making fun of you. That's what true friends do.
I don't think you should feel bad, it would feel worse not telling him. Trust me, I know. Never regret it. You see, here's my philosophy in life (and I don't share this with just anyone, so feel special ;])
Don't ever regret anything. Nothing, not good things or bad things. Because if you hadn't done them, you never would've learned from them, or gained from them. If you regret something, you just have it eat away at you. What's the point? Never regret anything you do, because you did it for a reason and the outcome taught you lessons you might have never learned.
Best of luck && keep me updated!
-Laura. (15-f)
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