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boys are difficult.
15/f.
So theres this kidd i like a lot. I dont know i think i may even love him. but its just hard. Like i've known him all my life & you could say we are pretty good friends. Now he has known i like him for a very long time. And everytime i see him or talk to me i just fall for him even more and more. Now he doesnt like me back which hurts. I know i cant do anything about him liking me but idk. Sometimes i just feel like im ugly and he doesnt like me because of that & if thast the reason it is extremely shallow. I know im not that ugly im not the prettiest thing but im deff not that ugly. And i've been told i have a great personality, which people say is what people like in a relationship. Most of my friends don't like him. They always tell me to get rid of him as a friend. But i've known him almost all my life. And ive long him for a very very long time. I want to get over him because although i may possibly love him. He doesnt love me back, well not like that. He jokes around with all the sexual hints and stuff, but he doesnt mean it & i know for a fact. I guess im just wondering what i should do. should i drop him as a friend? or should i try and stop liking/loving him. Because i honestly dont know how to get over him. It's like im always going to like him.
Any help would be nice.
thank you.
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Awh,,Im so sorry.Im in this exact situation.I dont know where to go for advice,but maybe I can give it.
Youre prolly NOT ugly.and personality is VERY important.And think about this..why are your friends telling you to get rid of him as a friend?.Is he bad...does he do bad things...why would they tell you that?.Then you dont really need to "get over" him..your friends arent ALWAYS right.But then again,,if you think their oppion is valid,use it.Anyways..have your own oppion.Just listen to your heart.And if youre not sure of what it's saying..ask someone..a youth pastor,parent,aunt,uncle..and if it's REALLY bad,maybe even a conselor.
The only words that will prolly be helpful are:
"Think through this."
Its the only thing that makes sense.
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