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homecoming


Question Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 7:21 pm

okay so supposidly one of my friends is planning on asking me to homecoming...the thing is im not sure i wanna go with him. i honestly want to go with one of my friends, but he's not the type of friend i wanna go with, i wanna go with the type i can have fun with and goof around with. He's just a nice..kinda mellow type. I mean he does dance and whatnot..but idk i dont really want to. so i kinda wanna say no, but i kinda dont becuase hes my friend and our parents are good friends, they were friends before we were. He is kinda short and small and im taller and but im not small and skinny like he is, but im also not fat.

So should i say yes? and if i say no, how do i say it?

also, im looking for homecoming dresses. no higher than $75...harsh budget i know! i dont really want one to the floor. so if anyone knows of any good places that would be great, i dont wanna end up with a dress someone else has, oh and i live in the houston area.

thanks so much!!


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Adri answered Thursday September 27 2007, 8:55 pm:
Well, first off, you'd probably be surprised how fun this guy can be..being mellow is being cool, in my opinion, so this guy is cool..you know, in the "relaxed, chill" sense of the word.
However, if you make it a good time, he could just change that. ;)
Once the night of fun & dancing has begun, he might completely go crazy and just be really a fun guy. Don't go too crazy, but just have fun and I'm sure he'd be a fun date. Go with a big group. Besides, you don't have to stay with your date the whole time....barely anyone ever does, at my school, unless they're going out or something.

As for his appearance -- I can see why you might take that into consideration, but really, no one will think any less of you if you go with him because he's small. I mean....really, people will probably respect you for not caring.

On the dress front -- I bought a $35 dress @ Macy's.....then I saw a reeeally pretty dress at the thrift shop/goodwill, for ten bucks, and went with that one....you never know what you'll find on clearance racks, and if you get it at a thrift/goodwill store, chances are no one else will have it. ;)

Hope this was helpful, and have fun at the dance! :>)


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torresjasmyne answered Thursday September 27 2007, 1:03 pm:
Looks shouldn't matter and opposites attract. If he asked you then he likes you so say yes.

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whorenee answered Thursday September 27 2007, 12:59 pm:
Okay, so I also have homecoming..next week actually but anyways i'll try my best and answer! If you claim you two are friends, and you have no other date..then why not? Just make sure he fits in the group of girlfriends you want to go with..if you choose he wouldnt be that fun and itd be kinda akward then just say no i'm going with friends or say you're already planning on asking somebody else (if you have somebody else in mind) I mean its just a dance, once you two go to it..you dont have to dance with him 24/7...either you have him ask you (and pay for you!) go with your girlfriends, or just ask somebody else!

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