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guy problems once again..
ok, so, i guess i'll just get straight to the point..
My friend, likes this guy, but only since the start of the year, and she told one of my other friends and one of his friends found out and told everyone including him. i feel really sorry for her.. shes been really upset about it.. but anyways, i've liked him since.. like forever. and i told her today so that she didnt feel so bad.. but the guy who told everyone that she liked him knows who he acctually likes, and.. its not her. but he wont tell us who it is. i really can understand why, but there have been hints that its me.. i mean like, im happy and all but have no idea i dont wanna get my hopes up just incase.. but then theres the problem that another girl told me that he told her that he likes her but shes not a real reliable source.. but thats the story, here are my questions..
..is there any way that i can find out who he likes? apart from internet?
..how do i deal if it is me that he likes?
..how do i deal if it gets out that i like him?
sorry theres so much. just alot to explain..
thanks in advance.. if you understood all of that..
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...Well, you could just ask him outright. It's not a big deal to let someone know that you like them even if they don't like you back.
...It's not something you 'deal' with. It's not a bad thing, which is what the words 'deal with' implies, so if he does so happen to like you, tell him how you feel too. You guys might end up going out. But he's not going to want to go out with someone who won't even admit they like him.
...It's not a big deal if you don't let it become one. If it gets out that you like him and he likes you back, then you're golden. Just make sure it's okay with your friend or she'll think you've betrayed her. If he doesn't like you back in that way, don't fret. It only became a big deal about your friend liking him because she let it show that she was embarassed and people pick up on that and use it against you.
Good luck.
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