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Lost in Love
19/f
This guy that I worked with for years and am still friends just started dating this new girl not to long ago. During the time we worked together and for a while afterwards I was head over heels in love with him. During my last year of working with him I finally got up the courage to tell him how I felt. He was very curtious and kindly said that he had a girlfriend but that I shouldn't feel awkward around him.
After 2 weeks of crying and feeling bad for myself I decided that I would be okay, that I could finally move on because I had been honest about my feelings and recieved my answer. So I tried, eventually I met a new guy and had thought that I was totally over the first, that I had only friendship feelings for him. He was dating the new girl I mentioned and was happy and I was happy for him. It wasn't until I saw pictures of him with her, kissing, cuddling, etc. that everything came back. It's as though I'm that 14 year old girl again, hopelessly in love, no one else seems right or feels good enough.
What can I do to finally put this all to rest and get some closure?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well what you need is to give it some time for you not to see this guy at least for a while so you will feel much better to give you that space you need,to meet others so the feelings could go away,keep your mind on someone else you're interested so you can finally go on without that pain.
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