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confusing much?
i'll try to make this short as possible! :
i'm 14/f.
there's this guy; we'll name him jon.
lol well.
i talked to this guy A LOT during the summer and we got really close; i've never seen him in person tho because we always got busy right when we wanted to hang out. well one night in the summer he decided to tell me something that i guess just shocked me. that he had sex last year and it was a mistake and he was being really sweet and was like i can't stand it if your mad at me and so on...
well after that we just kinda stopped talking.
a few weeks ago he txt me again and we just started "flirtin" all over again. wats really weird is he's had sex and i haven't even kissed a guy ; but he thinks i've gone farther like not sex but like ya. anyway. he's one of the sweetest guys i've met well talked to. then last night he said "whats the dirty-est thing you've ever done with a guy?" and i'm just like "well thats my business what about you?" and he said "hand job and i fingered a girl. idk he said he'd never do any of that stuff again unless he REALLY loved the girl. idk i believe him but ugh its just driving me nuts because i'm falling for him i don't think i should be! help
sorry its long :/
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To be honest, it sounds VERY fishy. Even if that's just two conversations.
Don't take this word for word because I might be wrong: But it really sounds like he wants some sympathy nookie.
You should get yourself away from this guy. Or at least cool it down to a platonic relationship because the next thing he might count on is for you to fall in love with him. And right after that, he could just outrightly ask for sex. Given that he's told you that he would never do those things unless he "REALLY loved the girl" he would assume that you think he's in love with you so you might let him do it.
Very fishy indeed.
Cheers,
stargirl
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