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reality vs dreams
im always waiting for something amazing to happen..which comes from my head. I just need to realize it will never happen and seperate my thoughts("dreams")from actual reality.
Most of it is probably about boys. Ive never had a boyfriend and never been kissed.
PLEASE HELPPPP!!!!!!!
14/f
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I'm the same - only it's not about boys.
I can tell you you're pretty normal. Everyone has dreams and fantasies. The whole point of them is to try and achieve them. You shouldn't say it will never happen. If you put your mind to anything, it can work.
Considering you're only 14 years old, you shouldn't really be worrying about boys and first kisses. I promise you they will come when they're ready to! You can't rush these things.
If you see a boy you like, focus on getting to know him. It could be the start of a whole new friendship or more.
Lots of people haven't had their first kisses etc or boyfriends at your age. and the majority who say they have could be lying.
For the time being, focus on your friends and school etc. If a boy happens to come into your life sometime soon, so be it. but if not, don't sweat it. There's plenty of time for you to start dating.
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its okay to get dreams and reality mixed-trust me. and it will happen, just give it time. and as for the kissing thing im gonna tell you i didnt get my first kiss until i was almost turning 15. even then it was awful not emabarrasing awlful but awful awful, cuz i didnt even want it. i thought i could never get kissed-wrong. i thought no guy liked me cuz i didnt have a boyfriend-wrong. Matter of fact most guys wont ask a girl out because they are too chicken to do anything about it. most of the time they will leave it up to you....so my point chances are something will happen to you. just dont worry about it and live your life to the fullest. be yourself and maybe a guy will take notice and not be scared.
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