Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


bf troubles


Question Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 2:00 pm

So my bf and i have been in a relationship for about two years. He is 19 and I am 18. He moved to georgia (I live in PA) in June but has been visiting a few times. The last time I saw him was about a month ago. Recently, it feels I am the only one who is trying to keep the relationship going and keep in touch. I know he loves me but recently he just hasn't been showing it. Should I talk to him about it? I am very worried he is going to break up with me, and that the reason he hasn't been as talkative is because he is not as interested. Please help, thank you.

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


karenR answered Sunday September 16 2007, 7:43 pm:
Yes. Do talk to him about it. Now that you are long distance communication is even more important.

I should tell you, even though I do wish it weren't so, that long distance romance usually doesn't work out. The reason being that at your age you want to go and do things. Dating and doing all those social things is a real big part of your lives right now.
Those things are impossible when there is distance between you.

It is also very easy to be so involved
in your new school and with new friends,
you forget to keep in touch with he old ones.
That may be whats happening with him right
now.

So by all means talk to him about this. I
know you don't want to break up with him,
and I hope that doesn't happen, but you do
need to discuss it with him so he isn't going
on with a social life and leaving you waiting.
Thats not fair to you at all.

Good luck sweetie. I hope it works out the
way you want it to. His silence could just
be he is busy with school just starting up. :)

[ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question
]


More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: friends or not
Next Question >>> eating out....

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!


All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker