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Sick of quickies
This guy ive been with for some time used to be good in bed, we'd do it all over the place and it would be wild and fun....but lately its been like 3 minutes of 5 minutes for like 2 weeks straight and im getting sick of it. It does something for him and nothing for me. He says that he's sorry and cant control it and that he "doesnt know whats wrong with him". But Ive talked to other guys and they say that any guy can control when they get off and that he's being selfish and doesn't care about pleasing me. Is that true?
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Some guys do have sensitivity issues, and literally cannot stop themselves from having an orgasm. Also, there can be issues once a guy gets comfortable. As with women, guys usually need to have some level of comfort with the situation in order to climax. At the start of the relationship, the guy is worried about pleasing you. He literally has trouble getting off until you're somewhat satisfied. Later, he knows he satisfies you, and the effort starts to wane. He doesnt feel nervous about it anymore.
Talk to him about it. Tell him that unsatisfactory sex is a problem for you. Be gentle (male egos are often quite fragile) but firm and honest.
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That's not true at all. Some guys do have problems with this. Try not to give him a hard time about it. It won't help. It just puts pressure on him. Do some research on premature ejaculation. There's probably a few websites out there with tips of how to avoid it.
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