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does he still like me? what should i do now?
i really like this guy that i met this summer at camp. he is two years older than me and lives 4 hours away. i wasnt going to give him my number or anything and just forget about it but after basically a whole week of flirting he gave me his email. we emailed back and forth basically everyday. i gave him my number and he called me and everything was going great. i felt comfortable talking to me and he made me happy. eventually after like two months of constant emailing and phone calls i went with a friend to go see him and also another friend of ours. it was the best time of my life we hung out and just did random things. we didnt kiss or anything like that but it was a great time anyway. the next day i got a voicemail from him and he was seeing if we got home ok and i thought it was really cute and called him back and talked for a while. next thing i know he asked me to his homecoming and i said yes of course. but then the next email i recieved from him he said that he was maybe going to go with another girl and i was crushed. i told him it was fine and i was ok with it. but i really wasnt. now i am just not really sure what to do. he said he is going to come and see me and we can hang out but i am not sure what to think anymore.
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It could be several things, if you guys are clicking so well and he truly has no problem with your appearance then it could just be that he doesn't want to be difficult- you did say you live four hours away. And it might also be that he doesn't want a long distance relationship or he's afraid of them- you make it sound like that's what it's turning into.
But if he hasn't made it clear to you that he wants a relationship then you need to re-evaluate the situation, keeping in mind that guys think different than girls- and ask yourself if he's looking for a friend in you (because friends can flirt and talk 24/7, trust me).
Maybe he's shy or he feels like you didn't truly want to do it- your best bet is to ask him nicely, but be honest about your feelings, if you talk as much as you make it sound like then you must be very close. He should understand.
Best of luck!
PS: Long distance can work but it always takes more effort from both sides, and a very good deal of trust to be maintained.
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