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im desperate i feel like dieing
Me and my boy friend have been going out for 11 months now. We are madly in love with eachother. He cries to me at night and i cry to him becasue we have been arguing a lot and hurting eachother. He has anger problems and so do i he disrespects me by calling me names and ignoring my phone calls i get realy upset when he ignores my phone calls. So i call back over and over agin maybe 50 times in a row even thoug he says leave me a lone i dont want to be with you go away i hate you. He said he has a lot going on in his life which he does he has court and he hasa job and school hes trying rally hard to do good in school. I ush him all the time to do good in school and im hapy he wants to organizehis life btu now hes throwing me out of it becasue he doesnt have time for a girl friend. He cares for me and loves me but he covers it up by saying i havnt cared about you in so long i dont love you i havnt and mean things i get so hurt over it but i cant let him go no matter what. Then at night when i talk to him till like 2 on a school night he says he loves me and cares but he doesnt have time for a girl friend even though im moving 10 min away from him and he doesnt work everyday our one year is coming up and it hurts for him to say all those things i cant instantly stop loving him what do i do? I cry every night feel like dieing
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I'm guessing you're a teenager. I know you might not want to hear this and this might not help you at all, but I think the best thing to do is get out of it now. If it's meant to be it'll find its way back. You guys just might need to take a little break. Serious relationships as teenager can get really frusturating.
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this is hard to say. im madly in love with my boyfriend too, we been going out over a year though. if he calls you bad names, and ignores you, well honestly whats going to happen when you're older? if you marry him he'll treat you the same way he is right now. think about this long and hard. Sometimes you have to forget about what you want and remember what you deserve.
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Just because he loves you, doesn't mean he is going to choose to be with you.
Just because you can't stop loving him, doesn't mean its going to work out.
Give him space and give him time. If he really wants to be with you, he will. If he doesn't want to be with you, he wont.
It really is that simple.
Cry every night if you need too, but let him go anyways. If he wants out, nothing you can say or do will change that.
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