Question Posted Tuesday September 11 2007, 10:26 pm
I basically over react to everything i do not know why, i love my boyfriend with all my heart he is my first priority always but i seem to get jealous and stubborn and cry when he doesnt do something i like, like when he would rather hang out with his friends i break down and cry or when he cant hang out with me because he has a game , i dont know what my problem is, any way i could be more relaxed and not so controlling?
illwill24 answered Wednesday September 12 2007, 8:22 pm: It's probably just because of the attraction you feel towards him. you love him and would be completely and utterly heart broken if he ever did anything to hurt you. even when he's with his guy friends it's possible that subconciously you may feel threatened by the fact that he's not with you. The best thing i can tell you is that (although i don't personally know) i'm sure i loves you as much as you love him and would never do anything to harm you. plus i'm sure that even when he's with his guy friends he's thinking of you. It's not oncommon for the subconcious to take over in a realationship.Just understand that a relationship is completely give and take. although you to are going out and you are very important to him your are not the only person in his life. Let him have your trust and i promise he will reciprocate and appreiate you that much more for understanding.
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