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The Future!!!!
Hello,
I have a little problem that seems to be hard to figure out. I thought i would find out some advice from someone else. I have had the same girlfriend for the last 2 years now and im 110% sure she's "The One". We have had some hard times together and been able to over come everyone of them. We want to move in together around next June 16th but inorder for this to happen we both need to be working now to save up money to move in together. I work in the morning from 8:00 to 3:00 and then 3 nights a week i have classes at the college from 5:00 to 9:00. She's in her last year of High School and has school from 7:45 to 3:30. Then she has work 4 days a week from 4:00 to 9:00. Which leaves about 3 hours a night to talk to eachother but i dont think she'll be able to stay up til 1:00 AM then have class and work. We would have wednesday and friday and saturday to spend together but i think she'll be to worn out from the week to stay up. What should we do?!?!?
Thanks
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You could spend Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays just relaxing together, lying in really late, just chatting, appreciating one another. You'll have plenty of time to stay up late and do more exciting things once you've moved in together.
Don't forget that the school holidays will free up a bit more of her time- you'll both still be working but she won't have as much homework to do etc...
My advice is not to lose touch with each other while you're working so hard, otherwise you'll move in with someone you hardly know anymore! Send her silly love notes and texts or something like that ^^
Good luck, I hope everything works out amazingly for you two, you sound like you deserve it xxx
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i think you sgould do whatever works for you. you're right, you do need the weekend for yourselves and to unwind. but, if you're both serious about saving money& moving in sacrifces are to be made right. and let her decide if she can stay up late. she will just need a nap to reboost her energy. it will be hard work for both of you. the ending result will pay off though, correct? :]
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