Question Posted Saturday September 8 2007, 9:18 pm
Ok well....I am 14 years old and a girl if that helps....My parents divorced when I was 7 and my mom and dad both got remarried. well i hate my stepdad. my stepmom is ok i guess since i never see her. but anyway, my mom and stepdad had 2 kids. my mom and dad had 2 also. me and my older brother wich is 16. well my stepdad, lets call him Fred, he treats me and my brother like crap but he treats his 2 sons like they are angels. I dont get it. I am not close to my dad at all. i rarely see him. im closer to his parents than him. I see all these little girls holding their daddy hands or riding on his back while i dont have a dad bc my dad nor my stepdad cares about me and the only dad i have is God. and my mom is a huge christian and she and my stepdad fight all the time and today he actully hit me and my mom told me that if he doesnt go to counseling on monday then we are gonna move out. i cant live like this any longer and i dont know what to do. i just really wish my parents would get divorced or me and my dad would get closer and he would actually care about me. I just feel soo sorry for myself and i cant help it. I dont know what to do any longer. if my stepdad actually treated me like his own daughter than it would be a different story. but i dont have a dad and i hate it! i dont wanna have a single mom, i wanna have another stepdad that like my own dad. but i know i wont. Please help me. i cant deal with it any longer.
Telly24555 answered Sunday September 9 2007, 11:36 pm: Well, We don't know all that is going on in your life, So the best person to talk about this is someone who knows what you are goign through, Your mother. Or maybe telling your dad would help you get closer to him.
I know how you feel though, My dad is in a wheelchair so he can't do to many fatherly things, Though we are very close he can't do all that normal dad's can, But he tries.
If that doesnt work maybe try talking to a counslor(school) [ Telly24555's advice column | Ask Telly24555 A Question ]
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