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Is he avoiding it?
So i just started high school and i met this boy. It's so weird. We're really, really, alike. Well the first day we talked and stuff, and then the second, we talked alot, but the third day, i gave him my phone number, and asked him if he wanted to sit at my lunch table. He sits there now and we really flirt and stuff. It's not 'innocent' flirting either. It's like..wwoahh, i don't even know how to explain it. The first night i gave him my number, he didn't call me. But he called me the second night, and we talked for about 20 minutes. The next day, my best friend gave him a note without me knowing, that said "sam likes you. wanna go out with her?' and so that night i called him and asked him what it said and he was like.. i don't remember i think it just said..he whats up..or something like that. so then i called him at ten and we talked for an hour, and he didn't say anything about the note. is he trying to avoid it, or is he just nervous?
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i think hes mostly avoiding it because i think if he was nervous he wouldnt talk to you as much. just let him know what your felings and dont let him listen to your friends .. tell me if i helped
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He's both avoiding it and nervous. He's probably not sure that it was from you, so if he just tells you over the phone that he would like to go out with you, he has the fear that you wouldn't know whats going on and say no.
Especially because you asked about the note and what it said, he knows that you didn't know about it or what it said, so he doesn't want to feel like a loser by saying 'oh, well it was you asking me out.'
So, one night, just bring it up, and be like 'well, I know what it said but it was sent without me knowing... and I want to know what your thoughts on that note were...' and just be flirty. He'll hopefully catch on and tell you his answer and what he thinsk of you.
Hope I helped!
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