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PLZ HELP FRIEND DOING THINGS THAT SHE SHOULDNT- what do i te
My names Emily, and me and my friend, Katie are worried about my friend Lila. Shes been hanging out with this girl named Grace, who isnt a good influence and has bad reputation for doing things with guys that she deffinatly shouldnt be doing at our age.
She's becoming a bad influence on Lila. Lila's been going way too far with her boyfriend lately....and sending pictures to random guys. Theres even a video going around about Lila doing some things that she shouldnt be doing. She's starting to get a bad reputation. I dont want her to have a bad reputation, and also her reputation is starting to rub off on me. And everyone at the highschool knows her for her pictures and videos. Since we are starting highschool next year, i dont want to have a bad reputation because i hang out with her. Shes still my best friend though and i dont know what to do. Please help! Please e-mail me back as soon as possible. Thanks so much.
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Take Lila aside and tell her straight up- what she's doing is NOT okay. Tell her that you love her a lot, and you don't want people getting the wrong idea of her. If she keeps doing what she's doing, tell her that you can't come to her defense if she's not coming to her own. Remind her that she could get icky diseases, or even get pregnant. Then give her a hug, and tell her you love her. Let her make her own choices, even if you don't agree.
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i'd try explaining to her that you are worried about her. tell her it's ruining her reputation too. Soon guys are just going to think she is easy and she'll never be able to find a decent boyfriend who doesn't want her for one thing. also if those videos and pictures are on the internet tell her she <b>needs</b> to take them off. there are so many perves on the net. also rape and sexual harassment could happen to her.
so just try talking to her about how you feel =]
i hope i helped out some :D
-hannah-
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you seem to be really wise and respectful..and i respect you man.What i think you should do is this...do your part as a freind..advice her and tell her that she wasnt like this and that you miss the old her...tell her if she wants to be your freind again then she has to go back to being herself...but the only problem with thi is that people already have a bad impression of this girl...so even if she changes...people will still think shes bad and it will rubb off on you!!what i think is that noone in the world is worth making your reputation stinky...forget about her man cuz if you dont..youll end up having a repuation like hers...there are many people you can be freinds with...but you need to find ones that are similar to you...
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