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Where can I find...
Well the thing is that I'm 16 and attracted to older women, like in there 40's through 80's. And I think I want to be with one. Not in a relationship, but in a sexual way. The thing is that I'm not sure where I would find an older women to do anything with, much less what to say to them. I dont even know if there are any older women that would want to do that sort of thing. I don't know exactly how to go about this so if you have any advice I'd be very thankful.
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Some teenage boys are attracted to older woman, probably because they're more experienced,
especially as you've said you just want the sex.
(note: it works the same way for some girls as well - they may be attracted to older men for the same reasons).
I think you need to wait a little while, to see if you're going through a phase.
Maybe it's because you're not attracted to anyone your own age, or you haven't connected with anyone yet.
There could be a number of reasons why you don't like people your own age, but for now, I reckon you need to find yourself.
If later on you're still attracted to older women, then so be it. I'm sure lots would be willing to have a toy boy! ;)
and about finding them, I doubt it would be hard. It may be now, because your friends probably want to go and find girls their own age.
I must also remind you to make sure you are of legal age in your area if you do participate in anything sexual.
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Try some nursing homes!
Or ask your mom if she has any friends!
Actually, you're going to want to wait until you're 18.
In a lot of states, it is ruled as statutory rape,
even though technically a male must be "turned on,"
to have sex, a lot of places consider it rape.
You're also only 16 and shouldn't really be thinking
about doing the 60 year old lady next door,
if ya know what I mean... you're still a kid,
and you have a lot of time to find someone.
The best thing is to wait until you're 18 and legal.
Once you get out in the real world, you will probably meet more people,
you may even change your mind about your sexual preferences.
Everyone has twisted sexual fantasies, but most of the time,
they should NOT be acted on. I have fantasies as well,
about being with older guys...(like in their 40's.)
But I know that, in real life, it wouldn't be worth it and I probably would regret it.
You would too right now, because you're only 16.
You'll eventually meet someone whether they are
your age or that older woman type you want.
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