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I Don't Have A Boyfriend
I can't get a boyfriend. Well, I can. I get hit on almost every day. But no one seems good enough. And there's no one that I like. I have to resort to making up fake boyfriends just so people won't think I'm a Lesbian. Right now, I'm in high school. So I was just wondering, how important is it to have a boyfriend in high school? Is it better to wait until college to look for someone? Or am I completely weird and is finding the right guy hopeless?
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First of all, not having a boyfriend does not make you a lesbian-- and if you are making up boyfriends, you care too much of what people think. everyone finds someone eventually. you are only in high school; NO RUSH. it may seem that everyone around you has a boyfriend, but you will find that most girls don't get boyfriends until college or even until they have started up their careers. everyone is different. just go at what pace feels comfortable. and you shouldn't be looking for a boyfriend. you should be looking for a boy. fall in love with a person, not an idea.
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I actually don't think it's that bad not to have a bf in high school. Don't make up boyfriends...cause they'll think you're desperate if they ever find out. You can have some great guy friends..and I date one of them if you want. The point is no one will be that 'great' and 'perfect' till you find your 'one'..which mite be a while. Jus...be out there!
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ok..you shouldn't have to make up stuff so people won't think that about you...i mean..if they do think that about you, then they shouldnl't be the people that you hang out with. i have never had a boyfriend and i am a sophomore in high school..i mean it isn't that important as long as you are happy with your self and who you hang out with. i have been having a fun time without a boyfriend.i know it would be nice to have one but u jsut got to let it happen naturally. i mean if a guy likes you and asks you out then go for it but don't push stuff..it will happen when it does and when it does...treasure the moment...good luck
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