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I am friends with this guy named sam and I like him and he knows it and he likes me and I know it. I even told his older brother marc I would say yes if he asked me out. He is being a chicken and he won't. Then Marc said he liked me. But I don't like him back. Marc was the one who said Sam liked me. My friend said Marc might have just said Sam liked me so I would ask Sam out and he would say no then Marc thought I wuold ask him out and then we would go out. But I wuoldn't ask Marc out. I really want to know if Sam really likes me how do I find out? And How do I know if it is the truth?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Usually when you have a gut feeling that someone likes you it's right. Guys are really not that difficult to read, but if you want an objective opinion you could always ask a friend who has often seen you guys together or read some body language signs ( tilting head to one side, hesitation, nervousness, them stuttering or looking down when you catch their eye, catching them looking your way.. you can find more on google if you search "how do I know he likes me" or something). Honestly, just trust your gut.
So you think that Marc would want you to get rejected by Sam and then go for him as a rebound? Why would he want that? Honestly I think you're being a bit paranoid.
Ask Sam out! Likely he's just shy, and will be glad that you did. Girls nowadays are so capable and so why do we have to uphold that whole tradition where only the guy can get the girl and not vice versa?
Liking someone is so ephemeral in that it can come and fade and grow if you let it. Go on some dates (casual even, if you wish), and then you guys can see how you two really feel about each other, and let your feelings for each other develop and mature. You seem to already know "the truth" =]
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Why dont you just ask Sam flat out if he likes you.
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