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outgoingness and popularity.
15/f, sophmore.
ok, you know how there are different groups and stuff at school and everthing. like popular, then people everyone hate, and just kinda well i like you but then i dont kinda things? well, i wish i had more friends and had lots of people to hangout with and everything, like the popular kids. well i guess you could say im preppy, but not stuck up like some people are. dont get me wrong im not calling everyone stuck up im just saying there are some people that are. im 5'7 and people say im cute/pretty. the popular kids dont hate me, but we arent really friends. i talk to them ocasionally, but not much at all. and some of them seem really cool and nice. i just wish i was their friends and could hangout and have a blast with them. im kinda shy, and talk when i want to. but sometimes i talk to everyone. but most of the time im kinda shy, im not afraid to talk to new people really, i just dont or i like for them to talk to me first. so i guess what im asking, is how can i beccome friends with the more popular kids and make myself more outgoing, and not seem stuck up or mad or like a person you wouldnt like? high school is suppose to be the best, so i want to make mine that way. thanks. =D
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An outstanding personality is what makes you popular. Being funny, charming, nice, and sweet is what people gravitate to. So be yourself! Laugh and make jokes, smile, give comments, be positive, say hi to people you know, strike up conversations, just be friendly. Thats all you really can do! Except enjoy yourself :)
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well most popular people aren't really preps there just have more friends because they are outgoing. Just go up to them. Talk to them but don't say you like things you don't. It isn't as hard as it seems. In 6th grade i used to be preppy because I thought the popular kids would like me more. Turns out they like for you to be yourself. Most of my friends hate some of the things I like and we still get along great. I am friends with some popular people. What i am saying is you don't have to be popular to be happy. Just be happy and be yourself and everything will fall in to place.
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