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i know this is probably going to sound stupid but idk i was just curious what someone else would say about this. ive asked my friends then all say the same thing
okay so i was dating this guy for about 3 months. i met him from my friend who he liked alot but she didnt want to date him and i always helped him out and stuff. then one day i told him i liked him and it went from there. we were doing good at first and i really liked him then we started fighting alot and he would yell at me sometimes and get mad at me for stupid things. then one day my friend told me she heard he was cheating on me he swore he wasnt and that the girl just made it up so i just forgave him and forgot about it things started getting worse so he called me and said he wanted to c me. which he ended up just breaking up with me. he said i didnt trust him and he needed time to figure out what he wants. he knew he hurt me but i still liked him. he would call me sometimes we tried being friends but he lead me on. then i found out he liked someone else and we had a huge fight. he ended up dating the girl for about 2 weeks. and we never talked then one day in the summer at the end of june he started talking to me on myspace just saying whatsup and stuff. then one night he called me saying he wanted to hangout just me and him bc he needed to talk to me. he ended up telling me he broke up with the girl bc it got old and he started to miss me and all that shit. so i asked him what happened about the being friends and not having feelings for me anymore part. he was like well if you want to be friends i guess i can deal with that.. he kept telling me he missed me and always thought about me. i didnt really want to say anything bc i didnt want to just go back to him that easily. he held my hand and kissed me and everything like he wanted me back. we talked for awhile but it was kinda awkward and when i left he said he was going to call me the next day to hangout. he never did so i asked him about it and all he could say was that he didnt want to date me because he was moving in november and that i was just still a sophomore in hs hes 18 by the way. im 16. i yelled at him for always hurting me and trying to make sure he knew how much i cared about him...the other day i found out he had sex with this girl when she was drunk and they started dating. it was about 2 weeks after we talked. he broke up with her a couple days ago. i know hes an asshole and i need to get over him but it takes me forever. everytime i try to move on other guys just make me miss him more. no matter how bad he treated me there were times he actually was good to me. i guess im just afraid i wont find anyone i care about as much or cares about me..but pretty much all i wanna know is do you think he was just using me when he said he missed me. or do you have any clue what hes thinking when he always comes back to me then leaves again..sorry if its confusing :/ and the answers probably obvious i just needed someone elses advice :]
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I think you already know the answer to your own question but I understand that it's hard. He doesn't know what he wants. He doesn't know who he likes and he clearly doesn't understand how much he has hurt you. I can't say that he never cared about you because I don't know that, but if he truly did he wouldn't of done that to you. When he was telling you he missed you and such, it didn't seem belivable. Once that girl is out of the picture, he wants you back because he thinks you will take him back. It's a good thing that you didn't give in no matter how hard it was. He's not worth your agravation. Forget him and try to move on. Forcing yourself to forget about him won't help. You'll eventually get over him but before that, you have to tell yourself that he's not the right guy for you and that the way he treated you isn't right. Don't be scared that you won't find someone else who cares about you as much as you care about them. You're sixteen years old. You have PLENTY of time for that. Guys will come and go, break hearts but don't stress over them because they obviously weren't good enough for you.
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