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"But I love you like mad"
this guy and i have been having troubles and like.. things will be really good but then there will be times that he hurts me (emotionally) and like he doesnt care. but then he says sorry and stuff. and last night was like the last straw and he got me so upset but he said that he swears hes gonna change and that he doesnt want to lose me cause he really loves me like bad or something like that. and like i dont want to lose him either but i cant keep handling this. but i know that if hes willing to he can change what he does that gets me so upset cause its just stuff he does not stuff he says. and like he says hes gonna try and make things perfect between us but i dont know if i should believe him this time cause hes said in the past that he would change certian things and he did but then he gave up and just decided to do them again. and i dont it to be a cycle i just want him to really work to not do the stuff that gets me upset and i want things to be perfect. and he knows how i hurt i am so i just dont know what to do. and also i got so upset that i cut a C into my thigh and wrist because his name is Chris.
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Your a damn fool!! You dont injure yourself over no boy. Sorry I had to say it like that but thats how it came out. Why cut yourself over him? If you gotta do all that, you and him dont need to be together. Give him one more time to mess up sonce he says he is going to change, and if he messes up again, time to let him go.
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First off, cutting is really not the answer. You shouldn't let yourself get so upset over a guy that you do that to yourself. I would suggest going to a doctor to get professional help. Why?? Because hurting yourself should never be done. So, really, relax & try not doing it again. It isn't worth it. Try talking to a family member/friend about it. You can even go see a teacher or guidance counsler at your school. You might not feel like you need help, but if you are getting so emotionally hurt that you hurt yourself on top of it, it would be in your best interest to seek help. Secondly, you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who keeps hurting you. If someone loves you so much, why would they continually hurt you?? Yes, everyone makes mistakes, but it's up to you whether you let them back in or not. This is something you have to talk to him about. Since you injured yourself, I would suggest leaving him go for a bit or just stay friends. Talk to him about it. He should be able to work this out with you.
-hope that helped!♥
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